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16
Jul 10

Why Removing Choice Is Critical To Learning Anything Difficult

piano and the damning effect of choice Why Removing Choice Is Critical To Learning Anything Difficult

Piano and the Damning Effect of Choice

At the age of seven, I had the opportunity of learning the piano. Piano lessons were after school in the collegiate directly beside my public school. Unfortunately, the lessons felt like detention to me.  My usual activities of playing hand ball  or loitering at the 7-11 were way more fun, so I stopped going.

Fast forward 10 years later, when I desperately wanted to play the piano to impress a hot freckle-faced doll I crushed over, I couldn’t. I never stuck it out and learned the instrument when I had a chance (and my parents didn’t force me), so the choice to play the piano wasn’t  available to me.

My point? Choice can be damning. Giving yourself more choice now can deprive you of choice later in life. In a world ripe with distraction, choice  provides yet another alternative to doing what you should be doing. A path of least resistance.

Here’s what I propose: If you have mp3s of Spanish lessons on your iPod, remove all the music so that Spanish is the only thing left to listen to. You’ll have no choice but to practice your Spanish even when you don’t feel like it.

If you bought a book on Spanish verbs, don’t you dare join Oprah’s book club. The easy reading will seduce  you away from the monotonous but imperative work of drilling Spanish verb conjugations into your skull!

Remove choice from your life and “leverage the lack.” Focus on your Spanish, so that later, when you desperately need to speak Spanish, you can.

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29
Mar 10

How to Erase Bad Memories Forever: The New Mind Strategy

erase bad memories forever2 How to Erase Bad Memories Forever: The New Mind Strategy

Erase Bad Memories Forever? Photo by Sasha Wolff

I’ve made some big mistakes in my life. One mistake in particular stole a chunk of years and left me only with the strewn wreckage of bad memories. These memories, innocently enough, are triggered by mere words.

For example, the word sunrise should invoke the  rich, shimmering colors of daybreak into the mind’s eye. But if you used to watch each morning’s sunrise with someone who has become estranged,  the word will remind you of  loss and even betrayal.

Tragically, one of the most  serene and beautiful exhibits of nature becomes a source of anguish, and an innocent seven letter word now carries a payload of painful memories that sears your soul every time you hear it.

Been there. Done that. Bought the t-shirt.

Okay, now let’s imagine the word sunrise no longer exists to you. The memories associated with the word sunrise stay dormant because they are not invoked, and dormant memories become forgotten in time.

So I’m testing a hypothesis. I believe that by learning and adopting a new language,  you and I can eradicate memories of the past by replacing words that trigger bad memories with new words and a new vocabulary.

When your entire vocabulary has been replaced, and you think and dream in a new language all the time, any bad memories that were linked with old words and phrases wither away and die. It’s like the rebirth of the mind. The new language burns clean and sanctifies the mind of any vestiges of a painful past.

It’s like a frontal lobotomy without an incision.

I look forward to thinking and dreaming in Spanish, and perhaps my theory will be proven true for me. I will document my progress along the way.

P.S. If you’re not ready to learn a new language, but would like a new way to eradicate bad thoughts and habits, try my new game Addiction & Subtraction.

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9
Mar 10

Be Entertained and Learn Spanish: dream in español

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It’s my first post for dream in español, the blog for learners of Spanish, so I’ll start it off with a bang! “¿Le no entretienen?!” is a quote from Ridley Scott’s masterpiece “Gladiator”, staring Russell Crowe.

I watch all movies in Spanish now, or at least with Spanish subtitles enabled (and therein lies the first of many tips, tricks, hacks and secrets to  learning Spanish fast).

Mind you, I’m still a beginner. It was four weeks ago, from the time of this posting, that I started practicing Spanish. Before then, the only Spanish I could speak was a few menu items from Taco Bell.

Now, I can cobble together whole sentences – although my vocabulary is extremely limited and my delivery is slow.  Still,  my Spanish speaking amigos are thrilled with my progress, and I’m determined to be conversant in Spanish.

I’m also determined to share any knowledge I have with you.

Now allow me to introduce myself.

Me llamo es [ my name is ] Jason Comely.  I have written two books, Zero to Superhero and Economtricks and am a Search Engine Optimization expert in Cambridge Ontario. I maintain a number of blogs (albeit sporadically).

If you take a moment to visit these websites of mine, you’ll notice a running theme: lifehacks and success systems, to better myself, and help others do the same.

You’ll find dream in español has the same success-oriented objective.

The goal of this blog, for both you and I, is to experience a dream in the Spanish language.

I’ve been told by several bilingual friends that to dream in español signifies the language has truly taken hold. Hence the name of this blog.

You can be involved by leaving comments in the comment section, and sharing your Spanish language hacks with me and the rest of the readers via email, or you can hit me up on Twitter.

Subscribe to dream in español now and let’s make this Spanish dream a reality.

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